Reaching for the Prize

Posted by admin on May 14th, 2008 — Posted in Self Improvement Stuff

What’s a prize? When we think of that word, we envision playing the lottery and winning the big prize. The dictionary defines the word prize as: accolade, award, reward, or honor. Consider something earth-shattering, that rarely ever happens, like exceptional merit for bravery, a totally unexpected inheritance, or the top lottery prize.

A dream - yes, a big dream - can come to pass! you can go for it and bring it to pass. Not the airy fairy stuff, like winning the lottery. But, no matter how big your dream is, it can come true!

Remember when you were a little tyke and had great aspirations of becoming — (fill in your blank)? Then what happened? Did your dream become a reality? Or did well-meaning teachers and parents implant negative thoughts which eventually eroded your expectations?

We were all excited about what we wanted to be and how much money we were going to save in order to have an early retirement. You’ve been there, haven’t you? Then what happened? Well, the cares of the world, personal relationship problems and feelings of not being up to the job surfaced and eventually overtook the dream, right?

Over the years a lot was heard about the importance of thinking positive thoughts. The implementation of always having positive thoughts was a concept that was easier said than done.

Happiness is a Choice!

A Choice? How can that be? How can happiness be a choice? Is your life not the sum of all the problems and experiences you had to fight off along the way, including upbringing, doctors’ diagnoses of your and/or family members/s’ health problems, etc….and the list goes on?

But, it’s true! We can choose to be as happy as we would ever wish to be! What about past experiences? We can enjoy every day with new zest and expectation, and even start a whole new career - anything you want! Right now!

Right Down the Vision

The most important thing to do with your dream is to write it down. Put it on your desk - right in you face. Why? You’ll see it, talk about it, and dream about it every day. The written word becomes just like a legal document. And, if legal, then of course it is going to happen!

The Spoken Word

Once the vision is in your mind, you Will start speaking about it. To yourself at first and to your closest friends and family. Eventually the more you hear yourself speaking it - in faith - the more it becomes reality. Work it, think it, speak it! By thinking of and speaking in faith the thoughts that will bring you happiness, you are automatically ignoring all the bad thoughts that plagued you before! Reading motivational and inspirational quotes will help keep you on track, as does associating with positive people.

One Day at a Time

The most important thing is to live one day at a time. It keeps to big vision in perspective. Every day you will see positive changes happening. Surround yourself with pictures of what you’re aiming for. If it’s a brand new mini van for your family, cut out a picture of one and stick it in front of your workplace or fridge. Speak and believe the van into being.

In summing up, you will actually discover that the power is within you to bring happiness into your life. You can do it. By seeing it, thinking it and speaking it and refusing to listen to any negative thoughts or words, one day at a time, you will soon experience a different you! You are not a finished product of your past circumstances. You are the product of your thoughts and beliefs! Happiness IS your choice!

Ann Stewart

Montreal, Quebec, Canada

ann@lifealteringwords.com

Ann is the author of “With Wings as Eagles,” an inspirational and encouraging testimony of overcoming through faith in the Word of God.

Featured on the cover of the October, 2005 issue of Triumph over Trauma and sponsor of the Shared Vision network, she is dedicated to help and encourage others to stand strong spiritually, emotionally and physically.

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Happiness - Not Something To Pursue

Posted by admin on April 22nd, 2008 — Posted in Self Improvement Stuff

Perhaps the most sought after thing in the world is happiness. Our constitution even provides freedom for the pursuit of happiness. People seek out many things in that pursuit . . . power, money, love, sex, food, etc.

Happiness is not something to pursue. It’s a decision we make for ourselves. Will Rogers may have said it best. He said, “Most folks are about as happy as they decide to be!” You have to decide to be happy. You may be amazed how everything else then falls into place!

My wife and I made that decision years ago. It works! But, you have to decide to be happy every day and regardless what happens. That’s not always easy. Sometimes it can be a decision you have to make every other minute. You can always come up with “reasons” to be down, if you let yourself. Know what? You can learn to take even bad times in stride! As one 70 year old man said* concerning what he had learned in his lifetime, “Don’t sweat the small stuff . . . and it’s all small stuff!” It takes practice, but it can be learned. Try it! Make that decision right now!

The Lord can help. You can go to Him in thanksgiving and prayer anytime. Prayer works! It really does. For many people, the problem isn’t believing in God, or that he can help. The challenge is believing that he will help. “Why should He help li’l ‘ole me?” “I’m not important enough for Him to help.” “That’s such a little thing. Why would He help with that?” “Isn’t He too busy with more important things?” “That’s too much to ask!” The fact is . . . He is always there, like a loving parent, to help in any way, at any time. All He asks . . . is that you ask, with faith. Then miracles can happen!

When you decide to be happy, several things occur. The world suddenly seems like a better place to live in. People seem so much easier to deal with. They seem happier. Why weren’t they like that before? Smile, and the world smiles with you? Your job becomes easier. Everything becomes easier! Dreams begin to come true.

Of course, there will always be some who will try to bring you back down to their level. Misery loves company? Perhaps. You may need to distance yourself from these people, if not physically, then at least emotionally. Something else to learn.
Above all . . . BE HAPPY! Pray about it. He will help!

*as recalled by the author from one of the ‘Chicken Soup for the Soul’ books

© 2004 David M. Butcher

Dave Butcher works a musical ministry with his wife, Carolyn Richards. They are full time and travel the USA presenting their programs at churches, gospels sings, revivals, RV campgrounds, fairs, festivals, and other events. Carolyn is the #5 “Most Played Overseas Gospel Artist” according to a chart published in the Oct & Nov, 2004 issues of Glory Train Express. Carolyn was in the top three percent “Most Played” of mainstream and indie country artists in early September according to a chart compiled by Western Heart Promotions of Phoenix, Arizona WORLDWIDE MAINSTREAM “MOST PLAYED “MAJOR & INDIE” ARTISTS CHART” 01-15 Sept.2004 According to the chart, she got more airplay in that time period than Tim McGraw, Brooks & Dunn, and Loretta Lynn. She had at least one song on the charts every month in 2004. Dave & Carolyn ask that you remember this: The Lord is gonna see that Everything’s Alright! Trust Him! http://CarolynRichards.net