Posted by admin on June 11th, 2008 — Posted in Stuff for Kids
According to Diane Ackerman (An Alchemy of Mind - the Marvel and Mystery of the Brain) our brain is shaped a little like a loaf of French country bread, our brain is a crowded chemistry lab, bustling with nonstop neural conversations.
And to improve the brain power of a person we have to influence the non-stop neural conversations with positive pushes. But don’t think only a psychologist can understand the intricacies of your brain and has the art of influencing it to increase its power. By taking a few steps any parent can achieve the goal of developing a super brain in his or her child.
You will definitely agree that in modern world most of the parents devote a lot of time and energy in finding ways or schools to help the children develop a super brain. Good schools give special emphasis on the brain power of the children. Most of the parents are worried that their child is not performing well at school. They do whatever is there in their capacity so that they may be proud of their children.
Here are a few simple steps which will certainly help parents to start the action at home - the best place to develop a wonder child with a super brain.
See the Limits of Your Child
Every child has some limits so you just can’t enforce your desires. Pushing any child hard actually may damage its psychology as well as unique talent. So go easy and understand the nature and the limitations of your child.
Find out the Good Points
Every child is made unique in some way. So observe that unique quality. Sometimes a unique quality of a child just lies dormant in his mind till there is a provocation to rouse it. Understand it and develop it with love and care. It is the best way to boost confidence. Let your child involve more in those activities in which he can show more ability. Whenever a child is able to do a thing well there is a surge of confidence. And confident brains are always more sharp. You may take the help of a wise teacher or psychologist to understand the unique quality of your child in its true manner.
Create a Friendly Atmosphere at Home
Parents must create a friendly atmosphere at home to provide a fine nurturing ground. It is necessary to remove the barriers from the psychology of a child. Fear causes obstruction and a child is unable to develop fully. Especially the unique quality of your child, that is still lying dormant, may take a few more years to surface.
Ask Questions and Answer the Questions without Irritation
It is true that all parents love their children; nevertheless, most of them get irritated at the questions of children. You need total patience and a rational attitude towards your child. Also create an atmosphere of asking questions at your home. A child must be often asked questions almost daily. And questions should be framed in such a way that a child is able to answer most of them (not all of them). Also encourage the child to ask questions. Such an atmosphere gives necessary boost to the brain of a child. Parents should always realise that showing curiosity about various things is a natural tendency of a child. If a child starts repressing his feelings or thoughts, it may hamper the healthy growth of brain power.
Help the Child Sleep with a Positive Mind
Moments of sleeping time are extremely important in the development of the personality of a child. Unfortunately most of the parents ignore it. Fill positive thoughts in the mind of a child and help him relax before sleeping. It will boost his confidence and brain energy marvellously.
By taking all these steps the parents can see the miracle happening in near future. And they will be happier by the performance of their child.
Anandrahi
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Posted by admin on April 24th, 2008 — Posted in Stuff for Kids
There are many useful jogger stroller accessories out on the market today. Whether you are using your jogger stroller out in the hot sun, in the middle of winter or in a highly buggy area you will be able to find jogger stroller accessories to fit almost any situation.
Your child’s skin is very sensitive to the sun’s harmful rays. It is very important to be able to provide UV protection for your little one. You might want to consider purchasing a canopy for your jogger stroller. The canopy has mesh sides, is usually available in several different colors and can be attached to your jogger stroller in seconds.
Adding a basket to your jogger stroller might be a great choice for you if you are constantly carrying extra items and do not have a place to store them. The jogger stroller basket is perfect for carrying those heavy and awkward items that do not fit anywhere else. The basket for the jogger stroller attaches with Velcro and can be put on within seconds.
What happens when you are out for a jog and it begins to rain on you and your child? You might want to consider purchasing a jogger stroller rain canopy. The rain canopy will offer maximum protection for your child when the rain hits. This jogger stroller accessory is made out of clear plastic which encloses the entire stroller. Fresh air and the prevention of fogging is provided by plenty of ventilation.
Protect your child from mosquitoes by purchasing a bug canopy for your jogger stroller. This mesh cover fits over your existing canopy to offer significant protection against those pesky insects.
For those times that you are out with your jogger stroller in the cold you should invest in an all weather shield. The all weather shield will help protect your child from the wind chill, as well as, the snow, rain and other elements of the weather.
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Posted by admin on April 11th, 2008 — Posted in Stuff for Kids
In a phone session with Gerald, one of my clients, he expressed to me that he was feeling very sad about his son, Luc. Luc, 29 years old, was not doing much with his life, and Gerald was berating himself for how he had parented Luc.
“I should have spent more time with him. I should have motivated him more. I should have been a better role model. I should have been more firm with him.” On and on he went, judging himself for how he had been as a parent.
“Gerald,” I said, “Luc is on his own soul’s journey. Even if you had been a perfect parent - and none of us really knows what that means - Luc might still be having the challenges he is having.”
“Really? Wow! That makes me feel much better! I never thought of it that way. Tell me more about what you mean by his own soul’s journey.”
“I mean that each of us comes here to learn certain soul lessons. Regardless of how good or bad your parenting was, Luc is on his own journey, making his own choices. You can take responsibility for how you were as a parent, but you cannot take responsibility for the choices he is making for his life.”
“But I keep feeling that if I had been a better parent, he would not be struggling the way he is.”
“Maybe and maybe not. You have no way of knowing this. Your self-judgment is your attempt to have control over something you have no control over - Luc’s choices. You are trying to avoid your feelings of helplessness regarding Luc. But you are helpless over him. You cannot make him be different.
“Each child is different and each child will respond differently to our parenting. We do the best we can for our children. Most parents want the very best for their children and feel deep pain when their children go through pain. Yet we cannot prevent them from their own soul’s journey.”
“So what can I do to help him?”
“The very best thing you can do is to continue doing your own inner work, while praying for him. Even though he is 29, you are still a role model for him. Certainly judging yourself is not good role modeling. Luc needs to see you doing all you can to take loving care of yourself. When he sees you feeling really good about yourself and happy with your life, he might decide to make some changes. Aside from becoming a loving role model and praying for him, there is really nothing you can do about his choices. You need to accept your helplessness over him instead of trying to have control over him. Any attempts to control him will likely result in resistance.”
“Yes, he seems to be very resistant to anything I say. This is part of my frustration and sadness.”
“Right. That’s why you need to let go of trying to control him. You need to let go of being invested in the outcome regarding his choices and just keep on your own journey. The more you let go of him, the better chance you have of him making loving choices for himself, especially when he sees you making loving choices for yourself.”
Most parents want to think that they have more control over their children than they do. We want to think that if we “do it right” we can control the outcome we want for our children. It will make it much easier to let go of trying to control our children and just be the very best parents we can, when we understand and accept that they are on their own soul’s journey.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D., best-selling author of eight books, including “Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You” and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: www.innerbonding.com or email her at mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone Sessions.
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